THE STAR SPACE

As an activist, I know that my body is perfect. As a person, it seems I'm not so sure. Since I came out as non-binary, I often hear a critic

Queerly dearest, My partner and I shared our truths yesterday. It was terrifying and beautiful, and it brought us closer. One of the hardest lessons I've lea...

Don't go to Hell, queerly dear. Don't go to Hell for anyone. Or, if Hell is filled with all that you love, perhaps consider choosing it....

Yes, in spite of plentiful hot flashes, I've stopped having periods. That's right. Periods no more....

Queerly Dearest, We've been worrying about our wind chimes. They were made by a local musician who decided to create chimes that sounded...

Queerful dearest, three week's ago, we went to Vegas, partly because we wanted to reaffirm our vows with Marylin Monroe. (Fear not! Grave-r

Content: In defending trans and non-normative people, this post contains reference to intimate body parts (always brief), sexual violation, misogyny, transph...

Content: This post includes being bullied because of non-normative gender presentation and suffering dissociation due to abuse. When I was young, I was into ...

This post contains some revelations of personal abuse from Star's own mother, and a discussion of how the gender binary and myths of "unconditional mother lo...

Post content: The difficulties and wonders of coming out as non-binary are included in this emotional piece, which also mentions (in paragraph 5) my experien...

When you ship stuff to another country, it seems you have to gender it. See, we're moving back home to the USA, using a company called Seven Seas. So. Five p...

I have a British accent. I may not sound like Giles in Buffy, but you can bet your bottom ten pound note that everyone thinks I drink tea. When I first moved...

I've tried to write this post so it's easy to read, no matter who you are. --Star Are you aware that your physical body isn't necessarily a good way of telli...