THE STAR SPACE

Hi folks! It's been a while since I blogged here, and I'm hoping you're all well, during this strange time. Heads up: you’ll find Toy...

Queerly Dearest, This is what I tell myself: You don't have to know how you identify today. You don't have to know what the world thinks,...

Queerly dearest, So, the tagline of The Good Men Project's website is "The conversation no one else is having." No, really ....

Queerly Dearest, When I was in my late teens, studying folklore, I quietly went to the Pagan club at my university. I loved it, but somehow

As an activist, I know that my body is perfect. As a person, it seems I'm not so sure. Since I came out as non-binary, I often hear a critic

Queerly dearest, My partner and I shared our truths yesterday. It was terrifying and beautiful, and it brought us closer. One of the...

Actually, queerful dearest, that's not quite true. The last psychic I saw, who was eerily accurate in many ways, told me, "Real estate...

Queerly Dearest, We've been worrying about our wind chimes. They were made by a local musician who decided to create chimes that sounded...

Queerful dearest, three week's ago, we went to Vegas, partly because we wanted to reaffirm our vows with Marylin Monroe. (Fear not! Grave-r

Folks, above is my second video piece! Below is the transcript of the prose poem. And right at the end of the post, you'll find links to...

Content: This post includes being bullied because of non-normative gender presentation and suffering dissociation due to abuse. When I...

It's hard to think of one hateful thing that doesn't depend on a binary (which, for those who are new to the word, is an either/or). "You...

I’m fortunate to work with Dorie Clark, as her social media co-ordinator. It’s an honor, not least because of Dorie’s amazing books,...

This post contains some revelations of personal abuse from Star's own mother, and a discussion of how the gender binary and myths of...

Post content: The difficulties and wonders of coming out as non-binary are included in this emotional piece, which also mentions (in...

When you ship stuff to another country, it seems you have to gender it. See, we're moving back home to the USA, using a company called...

I have a British accent. I may not sound like Giles in Buffy, but you can bet your bottom ten pound note that everyone thinks I drink...

I've tried to write this post so it's easy to read, no matter who you are. --Star Are you aware that your physical body isn't necessarily...